I Choose To LOVE YOU

My gift to you is my love 

Given from deep within my heart

It is the best I have to offer

And its yours until this earth we 

depart.....

You have captured a part of me

A part so very fragile that I am in fear

For it is my heart I have lost

To you my love, the one I hold most dear .......

I chose to love you now,

With all that I have and all that I am

And I pray that God follows us

                                                                            To guide our steps as we cross this land ..............

For it is with His blessings

We will live most at peace with each other

For He is the reason after all

We found one another ........ I Love You!

LOVE vs. HATE

Emotions are the strongest feelings that come to life through our highest highs and our lowest lows. The two most extreme emotions known to man are love and hate. As experience has taught me, “Love conquers all.” With love, you can do anything. The power of love is stronger than hate because love gets you where you want to go and hate only brings pain.

In my opinion, it is hard to put just one definition to these two concepts. It is looked at by different people at many different angles and views. 

In Mythological Books  its states clearly that God does not “hate” anyone, but loves then with his heart, and he expects us to do the same, but it is claimed that it is harder to love than to hate. A person may have lots of love in their heart for someone, but hatred and abuse is the only way they know how to show it. Thus we can say that Love is an emotion that lifts people’s spirits and makes you cheerful. Hate can start fights and leads to unhappiness. Though these two emotions are complete opposites, they are also related.

As i think Love is an easy emotion to identify. You can see it everyday between couples, families, friends and religion. Having love in your life means that people are always there to support you or catch you when you fall. If you are someone conveying love towards others, you will be easy to become friends as well.  

But on the another hand Hate is another emotion that is easy to organize,& completely opposite of love. When you experience this emotion, you feel enraged and need to let you anger out. A few ways you can let this anger out are to vandalize a building, severely hurting someone or screaming at someone.

Both love and hate are strong emotions conveyed in opposite ways. These emotions can also lead from one to the other. A person can love someone and once that person hurts them deeply, it causes them to hate them. Hating someone can also lead to love with time and patience with one another. These emotions are two of the strongest in the world. Another way these emotions are similar is that both can be represented with the color red. Meant when you are in love u blushed with your red cheeks, but when u are in anger or in hate with some one you in ready with your red eyes and cheeks. Red symbolize both Emotions in different ways.

This could be silly or may be completely something people need to understand. 

"You may never actually love a person, but you may never actually hate someone either. "

If your best friend screws up one day, you won’t hate them forever, and if you love someone, you will always love them. It’s a twisted world that plays with our heads but fact is, it’s life, get over it.

  

Friends Forever.....

Vrinda Sharma
This Blog Is dedicated to all my friends........ whom I never want to lose till the end of my life........i know they all 2.......LOVE U ALL......


Truly Friendship is something that cannot be placed into words. Friendship should be an everlasting bond between two or more people who feel a connection like a deep rooted brotherhood or sisterhood,. Friendship is not something to be rushed into or taken for granted. But my friends are my Heartbeat.....I love my All friends....Specially My College Friends MY GANG......GOJ............dawn to earth, nice hearted, superb friends, the best people i met in my entire life.........


MinX, AdI, PaDdY, HeMaN, RaJ, ViKcY, ShEoRaN, RoHiT.............My COLLEGE Friends......
MY BEST FRIENDS MY LIFE...

AmIt Sir, AbHaY, ViPiN, MaNoJ, MeGhA, MaNdEeP,AnIL..........My Colleagues.

My friends, My Strength








ShWeTa, DiVyA, PoOja, SuNiTa, MuKtA, BaLbEeR, GuRpReEt, MaNiShA...........My School Friends......


Unforgettable Friends.....


And all other friends who made my life so special...........




 Whenever I am with them I really feel loved and Happy. They are always on my side in times that i need them through ups and downs, tears and smiles. We also shared the bad times and the happiness. I know our friendship would be nothing less. The time that we all spent together I'll always kept in my heart.


My friends are very supportive to me, they support me in what ever I'm doing, I saw they really love me. They all are loyal to me so i am to them. When there are times we were fighting even though its my fault they always say sorry to me, and they forgive me in what ever i have done to them.......i missed my school friends in this situation......and my college friends are like the same.......:)


My All Friends lives in my heart......they all take a special place in my heart my life......They mean alot to me. Please be with me forever.....even i lost my self u all please bring me back towards you. Life is HAPPY with Friends & worthless without Friends......You all are like expensive pearls and diamonds of my life......and with all of you my life is like a complete NECKLACE.


Specially my college friends are a glimpse of GOD. It is one of the life's best blessing to me. A priceless gift that can never be bought, sold, or forgotten. My college friends, are very special to me was the only people who understands me. they are my crying shoulders and a friend that i can lean on. We know these memories are worth cherishing forever, and our friendship would last for a lifetime. If everything would change and everything would fade, still i would not break the BOND we have made. . ...........i know wherever I am and whenever i need you.......You all are there for me.........but seriously i missed u all alot.........today.

This Song For u guys......

(Hum rahe ya na rahe kal
Kal yaad aayenge yeh pal
Pal, yeh hain pyaar ke pal
Chal, aa mere sang chal
Chal, soche kya
Chhoti si hai zindagi
Kal mil jaaye to hogi khushnaseebi
Hum rahe ya na rahe, yaad aayenge yeh pal) - 2
Shaam ka aanchal odhke aayi
Dekho voh raat suhaani
Aa likh de hum donon milke
Apni yeh prem kahaani
Hum rahe ya na rahe, yaad aayenge yeh pal
Aane waali subha jaane
Rang kya laaye deewaani
Meri chaahat ko rakh lena
Jaise koi nishaani
Hum rahe ya na rahe, yaad aayenge yeh pal
Hum rahe ya na rahe kal
Kal yaad aayenge yeh pal
Pal, yeh hain pyaar ke pal
Chal, aa mere sang chal
Chal, soche kya
Chhoti si hai zindagi
Kal mil jaaye to hogi khushnaseebi
Hum rahe ya na rahe, yaad aayenge yeh pal - 2 

LOVE U ALL.......

Take Your Study To New Heights - Map

Take Your Study To New Heights - Map

Vrinda Sharma

Its such a good opportunity to the aspirants who wants to make their career a shape.....

We can take a step ahead towards our new career, to fulfill our dreams and our parents dream. Its a lifetime opportunity.....either you have to look forward to it or lose it...now totally up to u....

u want to make your career a new path a new way a new beginning or just remain as a part of the daily crowd???

THINK again n Again..

ChAnGe Is GoOd..

 I keep saying it to myself, hoping that the act of saying the words will make it a reality.  So far, change has not been good.  In fact, its been the 

opposite of good.

We know that we cant live our life in the way we want..but it doesn't mean that we just put down our hope too. Everyone wants a change even for a while but yes they want........Not all the changes were successful but we learned from the failures too. When we feel alone we need someone to be with us but is it wrong to let others take decisions for us when we feel insecure? so i think Yes, it is because we should not let others choose our destinies. We can always overcome our insecurities and fears by looking for help in others by being helpful.

It is not only our insecurities but the fears that surround us that us to feel unready for life.... insecurities and fears might win over our beliefs making us feel useless and this may lead us to give up in life, letting others take control of our lives and decisions, giving them the opportunity to choose our destiny. Is hard to make decisions when we are insecure, but it is not possible. Every time when i make a decision & feel insecure, i just go for it. I rather make my own decisions than that some one else make them for me, now its all over, lets shows the other that we are as important as they are that even if we have insecurities and fear we are still captains of our destiny....... is hard to find ourselves when our love ones make us feel useless but they dont own our live they do not control our lives unless we let them... Lets be strong to face our Parents and  loved ones, learn to put our insecurities and fears aside so we can make choices that take us to success  cause we need changes in our life. 

Always remember that with insecurities and with fears we can still make decisions and control our lives. 

Pain of Leaving ..

 The Pain of Leaving someone is really hurts you. It could by any occasion whether someone passes away, relationship break up or friendship problems or your own bloody mistakes done by you in your life...or just unintentionally you are about to leave that person.....because your own problems or circumstances lying in your life.

 

It hurts inside whether you have lost that person or not, you will always miss them. Everyone knows its hard to say GOODBYE and when it comes to the time to say gud bye, you  just can't. 

You love the person so much but intentionally or unintentionally you have grown so attached to him/her, that you just dont want to let go that person from your life.Just when you thought you had it all,it all falls apart.Sometimes life meet with such a real fact that from love which is so obvious in some way that Love takes off masks that we fear we cannot live without and know we cannot live within.

People says that follow your heart. But when your heart is in so many pieces.Which way are you to follow?

The truth of life is that :- 

Love Starts with a smile....

grows with a kiss... and ends with a tear.(This is your life, and it's ending one minute at a time.)   

                                                                         

All this pain. All this hurt. they are just feelings.......you can cry as hard as you want......but the pain will never go away.  

Expectations Brings Frustration.

                                                                                                                                             Vrinda Sharma

Hey Friends its  a fact that when u expect too much, you will be Frustrated. if you dont want to be frustrated, don't expect much. Live without expectations and there will be no Frustration.


But people go on expecting; then  frustration comes in- or we can say that FRUSTRATION IS  A SHADOW OF EXPECTATION. when u feel frustrated you think that existence is doing something wrong to you. And asking is asking too much. Don't ask, be. and then you will be surprised - whatsoever happens is good; you have no way to judge it. Dont expect, and you see your whole life becomes  a joy. Expect, and your whole life becomes a hell. Expectation is the cause. If you want to change, never start by the effect, start by the cause. Frustration is the effect. You can go on fighting with the Frustration - nothing will happen, you will become more and more frustrated. .....

So just Be in your Self & Dont Expect too much from other people....cauz if by any chance you didnt get what u really expected then u feel bad or frustrated.which is not good....

“I am not in this world to live up to other people's expectations, nor do I feel that the world must live up to mine.”

Future???

Vrinda Sharma

  Today was the same day as-usual like my other days but  the changeable thing is that .........

Today when i was in my room, trying to study; suddenly my mind was started doing fighting with my thoughts, My Heart beat Fast...so many things came into my mind, and i start looking my future or can say imagining that what i m doing for my self my future.....is really m worried about my Future??

When i Dreaming of the Future, A Bright, Beautiful future, is all i can ever dream of...........but in reality i face Failure just because of my own mistakes....and the thing is that i know the reason of my failure but still m not doing anything.....just thinking & dreaming all of that.like a BIG  'L' who'd nothing in her hands but showing off .......and just because of this my Bright and such a beautiful future is feels me like slipping away from my hands.cause time is moving n running  fast even not for second waits for me ...seamlessly like now it was never even a possibility to get that........ :(

.I sit here and analyzing all the things everything I do and I want to do and the way ill get it......!!!!!!!!!

I Know that I have to change my Ways, Change my habits, even Change myself too if I m to ever get my Dream.......That Beautiful Dream. that wondrous , perfect future of mine, is all i ever wanted and all i ever want to........My dream...My Future........and for that hope that God and my parents more than the God will help me in my this Confusion........

its seriously a confused blog by a confused girl who dont know what she is writing but she wants to share her views and wants to get rid of  her thoughts for a while and thats y she wrote this blog and posted it on bloggers.com and Facebook as well..... if dont like then please dont comment but comment to definitely give your suggestions........if can..
I AM WAITINg...

Importance Of Father....

Why we gave all the Importance to our Mothers only?........What about are Fathers?? When we are in pain, sorrow or grief,  we call our mums Wat about our fathers;  they also feel the same pain as our mum do but y we ignored him? y we always wrote line about our mother's y cant about  fathers?? 


When i was depressed he came to me and ask: What happen Beta? Y are u luking sad ?is everything ok...? Tell me?
since from my childhood i dont know hwd he understand that i m nt happy but just try to be or act like............I knw i m late but still; 


 Here it is a short story through my words describing  my emotions and the importance of my father in my SWEET LITTLE LIFE....

When you were young, pony-tailed, 
face full of playful freckles spots,
were you a daddy's girl?
I was. and still I am. 

Did you look to him for your security,  for his love and attention,
for the understanding, and the patience you lacked
as a child? YES YOU DID.

My daddy was the center of my small world,
the focus of my affections,  the star that lit my life, and shining bright. Shining still and till the end of my life in my heart. 

The years have led me here,  shining  with maturity and responsibilities, and I see more clearly now. The hardships, burdens of love,  and all the small sacrifices he made for me,
for our family. He created stability, a place to call home. All the photographs I browse through

of a child long forgotten, scarcely remembered smiling, so happy and so loved. 

The mere thought of becoming that role model is enough to send me cowering, afraid...
looking for guidance. Turning to my father and my more for support,advice, wise counsel, and for approval. 

Grown up, I see differently now...
A new perspective of a man I have always known is MY FATHER.

You came to me and start doing fighting but take care of this that never hit me hard..you came to me as am ur Future but never said that you want to be my Tutor.

You never stop me for anything always let me do what i want to do....

My heart is full, my emotions are overpowering just in the fact of that bond existing between me and my father. He's been there for me through all the conflicts,helping me over the rough, ragged stones of growing up. My respect for him is unending, my faith on him is unbound, and love is unquestioning. Even in the midst of all my imperfections, he is lenient, ignoring the pitfalls, the downfalls, difficulties of my life, he just accepted me as I was, as I am. 

The sheer purity of it leaves me awe-struck and it lifts me up, it holds my head a little higher,
it keeps me in balance,  harmonizing with the world around me beautifully, like an inspired masterpiece from the soul of an honest man. 

I am honored to know him, to love him, to be of & with him.
He's my hero, and I am his daughter, his little girl.............

Dedicated to my father

Love YOU DAD.......

Dont Want To Miss You...

I want to hold Ur hands & Walk a Mile,

Dont want to miss u even a while.

 My Life is so beautiful, because

Dear, its you ,....MY Life.

Hug me for my worries do die

my tears to dry and my loneliness to fly....

It hurts me to know, how I sometimes can be little selfish

when it comes to you.

I am getting sentimental over you,

for GOD sake explain me why all these????

I miss you every moment of the Day,

I keep me awake just to listen you

I keep me empty just for you to fill me,

I keep me alive just to see you......

My mornings miss you,

My evenings seeks you.

Where were you all these years

y u were n there to wipe my tears.....

Fear for Future is worse than the pain of the Past.

still i bother the least, coz u r there.....

even seconds are too long to miss you

I want to hold your hands & walk a mile

Dont want to miss you even a while..........